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December 16, 2015

Genital Discrimination and Body Bias

by James R. Yarbrough

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Please admit to it now so that we can keep it moving. What bothers some of us—if not most—is what we think others might think of us. When you think like this, you are not going to be comfortable in your own skin. Then, those who this bothers the most will try to change things about themselves, even things that cannot or should not be changed. They spend loads of time and money on how they look how they dress and right down to how they walk and talk. Time and money surely are important, but not as important as your health. And some of the things are putting the people who do them at risk. It is no wonder, when you look at how some are criticized and joked about.

The talkers can get very personal and nasty. And it may very well reflect, as I suspect, on what they think about themselves. They focus on those aspects of your person that are easy to attack. When it comes right down to it, it is just superficial. But it bothers us nonetheless. And the only change that you can make is not really change at all. Yes, making these critical remarks with hurtful intent has become acceptable; it is everywhere. In casual conversation, in movies that we see, in magazines and even in some of the books that we read there it is. She has a big nose; he has a little dick, what about those ears and look at those itty-bitty titties. She ain’t got no but. It is no wonder that anxiety, low self-esteem and insecurity are at an all-time high. If you are the one doing it or if it is being done to you, there is a problem. And the problem is how “you” think. You as in whoever you are that thinks in this way.

Well, let the discussion begin. And what better place to start than where the most money and time is spent and that is with the purchase and use of makeup. Though I do not have to say it, I will anyway. A Change in makeup will not change who you are. The Self, which is who we really are, is our true makeup. It is the soul of a person, it is who we are and it does not change. Not all of those look “pretty products” is what you need. An overhaul of how you think will change how you feel and that is what you need. How you feel will change how you act and view the world around you.

Do not let how you look speak for you. It is only meant to be a compliment to who you are. Makeup and a getup will not keep you up. When how you act does not match your inner Self, it creates pressure. You have to try to act the way you look. The Self can only come out when the outside is in. How you feel, then, depends on how you look and it grows with time. It is how you think that does not allow you to be the real you. You have done too much when what you do cause you to act and look like who you are not. If I knew you and now couldn’t tell who you are, and you do not look and act like the person I knew, you have gone too far. Or is it that I did not know you before.

How will I know who it will be when I meet you again. You are changing your face as often as you are changing your mind. And it is all based on how you think you look and what you think others think about you. When you think in this way, it opens your mind to letting the messages come in from the “beauty industry” and you then become prey to their marketing schemes. You do not need all that they are telling you that you do. And let me remind you before I forget. The you I talk about is not you unless it is you. So, take no offense if it is not you who you see, it very well could be someone you know.

Women in the United States are spending over 8 billion dollars a year on cosmetics. This is almost as much as is spent on food. And they are now taking increasingly drastic measures to alter their appearances through surgical means. Money spent on cosmetic surgery and non-surgical aesthetic procedures is increasing drastically among all women, including younger women and women of color. It is not complicated to me why. Women and young girls (as young as four) have been conditioned to think that it is necessary. That they must cover up to look pretty. Is any part of this true, I think not.

We do want to attract and be attractive to the opposite sex. Well, here is the way it is with men and what they believe. That is if they are one of the reasons why. And we know that they are. Men believe, and I should know, some is better than none if that is what you want to do. If so, less would be the best. The more that is put on, the more his mind will change when you take it off. Real men want the real you. They know you are in there somewhere.
Beauty is not all it is “made up” to be, or is it. A Change in makeup will not change who you are. Do not measure yourself against the “pretty” women you see in the magazines. You do not know what all of their parts are made of and Photoshop is a hell of a program.
Just look below for some of the things that can result when you are trying for that look. The make believe world of beauty where you can be as pretty as you want to be. Beware of the warning signs ahead.
1. Insecurity and Low Self-esteem
2. Jealousy and Envy
3. False Pride
4. Vanity
5. Anorexia and bulimia
6. Anxiety and Depression
7. Expense (cost of makeup and cover up)
8. Skin Cancer
9. Breakups and Divorce (when looks change, as they surely will)
10. Rejection (yes, even some are disappointed with their new baby)

I am not letting anyone, male, female, young or old off the hook. Americans, in total, spent a whopping $33.3 billion on cosmetics and other beauty products in 2010, up 6% from 2009, according to the Commerce Department.

What Does Size and Shape Have to Do With It

Genital Discrimination and Body Image

Just as with looks and beauty, now our genitals are the cause of restless nights and insecure feeling. At this point the men of the world seem to be the main focus of this ridicule, because of the “bulge” or lack thereof, than women. Though, the girls and women are catching up. And they are becoming increasingly concerned about the size and overall appearance of their vagina. But their private parts are getting nowhere near the attention that the little dick is getting. The little dick jokes are hard, no pun intended, to avoid. So I can see why some men are now paying attention and finding all of this to be a little much. It is certainly having an affect on how they see themselves.

Women may assume that men prefer that they wear makeup and do all the other things that they do. But men do not have to assume what women want, they make it very clear, they want a large penis. Is this genital discrimination or is this what some, if not most, females need. What they just have to have, nothing smaller than large will do.

Just what does it mean to discriminate? Well, discrimination is defined by the New Oxford American Dictionary as the unjust or prejudicial treatment of different categories of people or things, esp. on the grounds of race, age, or sex. Since genital discrimination is our subject and the word sex is included in our first definition, let’s talk about sex for a moment. Listed below is a definition of sex from the same source.

Chiefly with reference to people, sex is sexual activity, including specifically sexual intercourse. He enjoyed talking about sex. She didn’t want to have sex with him. With that said, what are genitals? The word is defined as a person or animal’s external organs of reproduction. Of course, we know that they are not always used for reproduction, which brings us closer to what this all seems to mean, it is about size. And this, I guess you can say, is bringing it home to men. The penis enhancement industry not heard of just a few years ago is now a multi-billion-dollar business. It is large and is growing, no pun intended. And men who may at one time felt secure in their manhood now are filled with anxiety.

Some of the methods that men are using to enlarge their penis are dangerous and life threatening. And need I say, it is a waste of money, does not work and most of all, not necessary. If the person you are with feels that a big penis is needed and you do not have one you are with the wrong person. There is a mismatch. You must find a smaller vagina.

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NJ woman charged in penis silicone injection death

A New Jersey woman, who police say injected a man’s penis with silicone, resulting in his death, has been charged with manslaughter.

The Essex County prosecutor’s office says 34-year-old Kasia Rivera gave 22-year-old Justin Street the injection on May 5. Such injections often are used to enlarge body parts, such as the buttocks.

Street died the day after his injection. His death was ruled a homicide following an investigation and a medical examiner’s determination he died of a silicone embolism.

Rivera also faces charges for the unauthorized practice of medicine. She was arrested Friday and is being held on $75,000 bail. It’s unclear if she has a lawyer. No telephone listing could be found for her home in East Orange.

Are the put downs and jokes just a mean of getting back at men or are true feelings involved and size does matter. Why is it fashionable to joke at the expense of men with a “less than large” penis? It seems that women, and some men, find pleasure in their small penis put down. How many good men are passing them by because of their attitude. I suppose, though, they have found what they believe to be their best weapon against men and the biggest put down. And yes, with both man and woman there is large, small and everything in between so what is with this. You be the judge.

This is a quote from an online article by a female writer. “The “flaws” of women are often used as fodder for jokes, gossip and plain old bullying and mean-spiritedness.” Now will we admit, that it applies as well for men.

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Just what are we doing to us, or more appropriately, why do we find it so hard to be human. How have we allowed ourselves to be convinced that we are not good enough the way we are. We seem to have this desire to be who we are not.

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