Why You Feel the Way You Do
There is no such thing as equality beyond math, and I am not so sure about that. For all other purposes, it does not exist. We should avoid being where no one wants or need what we have. And we do not want or need what they have. No one has what the other one wants or need. There is no meaning in a relationship such as this. Though, when we share in an effort, the outcome should be shared. It is best for each one to realize that it will not be equal. Even if shared that way. For each one the motivation will not be the same. So then, the effort by all will not be the same. There is no true way to measure. It is how it is when there is more than one involved.
Are all things that are viewed as equal, equal? To be equal, what is it, you may ask. Is it more than a feeling? In some relationships, if not most, it is what it is thought to be, or not. What are the benchmarks? We think we know it when we see it. For many, it is a state of mind. It is what we see it as being. What it is, is fluid and open to change with a change in status. There is no agreed way to measure it. With that being so, equal many times is no more than what we feel it to be. It is a thought by those who feel they need it. If it is done to the extent that it is done, too much has been done. You cannot make what is outside of you, what it is not.
There is not a thing in life that we can say without a doubt, is equal to another. This is when looked at through the lens of equality. It is a goal that is out of reach because it does not exist beyond conception. Life was not designed to be that way. We cannot get it and we cannot give it. It is a power we do not have. Even when we mean well, it will not happen. Each thing is different from the other thing. No matter what they may have in common. No two are the same. And no two outcomes will be the same. All things are created one at a time. Each is its own. What determines what comes our way is most times by our own design. Not always, but what we do with what comes our way is, no matter the circumstance.
- What it Means Not to Tell the Truth (itishowyouthink.com)